A Wife…The Beginning and the End

He was up til 10:30 fighting sleep. She woke up at 10:30 coughing and needing cuddling til midnight. Although tired, I crawled into bed for a few short hours feeling blessed by 2 sweet babies. Jeremy put his arm around me and said, “You’re a good Mom.” He’s kind to me like that.

Then another one of those late night questions came to mind as my eyes closed, “But am I a good wife?”

Years ago I used purple marker to write out a quote I read in a book. Then I taped it to the wall. It’s made 2 moves with us and looks crinkly on the sides. The words read, “The wise woman remembers she will begin and end as a wife.”

We’ve added 4 kids since then and that thought still challenges me. I will “begin and end as a wife.”

One day these little people will move. Jeremy and I will be left alone. Will the years of parenting have wedged themselves between us forming a void we struggle to cross? Or will these tiring days and nights have brought us closer and more in love?

I ask these questions because I honestly wonder. There are good days and bad. There are seasons where we seem as in love as we did in 1999. There are others where we are too tired to even talk. Marriage is hard. We often miss that message in the bliss.

But it’s worth it. To take time. To listen. To sacrifice. I can look at Jeremy and see more than my husband. I can see him as Christ’s special treasure. The one He willingly died for. The one He loves. I can look at myself in the mirror (still rocking maternity clothes) and say the same thing.

We can offer each other imperfect love because we are loved perfectly. One season at a time.

“Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.”
(1 Corinthians 13:7)

Here’s a new song that gets me every time…Broken Together. Enjoy!=)

photo (13) He’s crazy about her!

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